We are bound by our human conditions so much so that we make ourselves believe nothing can be done, even before the good fight starts.
Yes, ‘The Good Fight’ which is not even close to running away from this world or the demons that work in your mind, rather make friends with them; just never get dictated by them.
To fight the bad, we need to know it first. The subtlety can be understood when we prepare to embrace ourselves wholly and spiritually. ‘Sometimes’ would not be apt to say as we are most often in such critical situations that every possible path is diluted as a deadlock, and we keep on looking for more and more options (read external patch up solutions).
As I said, we are accustomed to silent our inner voice and choices and think-say aloud our dependence on the things and people of this world, which ironically are not capacitated enough instead, bound by the material world conditionings.
We only have to look inside for everything that we want to know. But there’s a process.
Like all our learnings and knowledge have come through books, educators and our real life experiences, so is the need in life for a mentor, guide, master; the one who can take you higher on a spiritual platform, a raised altitude from material notions and concepts.
BELIEF – in the existence of oneself, one’s soul – is your only Qualification.
I was fortunate enough to get the guidance from my mentor- instating and reinstating my Faith and Hope in life. In this fortunate wheel of life, the vicissitudes that come along are more often than not leave us scarred and in solitude. And the one that gives us the qualm of a lifetime is the fear of losing our loved ones. When this unrecoverable loss hit me; it blew off my world; not at once though, one after the other.
The ordeal began with the tragic demise of my mother, and whilst I trudged through the phase, a few years later, it was my father’s turn to leave behind the family name to his children. Death wanted more and fed on one of my brothers. It didn’t stop here, yet again I was bared with one more human loss, the untimely death of my second brother, which still haunts me a lot. Being the youngest in my family my eyes saw many deathbeds questioning the whole universe round-the-clock – “why did this happen with me??”.
Bringing me to light were the words from my mentor –
“Although to us someone’s death may be difficult to understand and accept, from the deceased standpoint one’s death is part of their eternal life. Ultimately everything comes down to our faith. If we wish to live a life that is free of fear, doubt of anxiety it is essential that we understand two vital aspects of life. (1) The dignity of life (2) The eternity of life.”
So, with this answer I am continuing my journey through faith, practice, study and always remind myself what my Mentor says – Suffer what there is to suffer; enjoy what there is to enjoy. But never be defeated in any situation. Gradually, like the light emerges through darkness, my journey of peace emerged through the land of fear, doubt and anxiety. Of late, I lost one of my uncles (my father’s real brother) but this time I faced the situation more courageously and calmly.
I don’t know if my story can inspire anyone or even if it’s meant to, but if I succeed in changing one life by making it perceive a higher platform that every human being is entitled to, my purpose of life would agree with me. Never let yourself forget that happiness and all the magical secrets lie within us only. All we need is to believe in ourselves and discover them with an optimistic approach which will surely saturate our personality with ray of hope, zeal, courage and motivation to face life at any troublesome circumstance with smile and calmness. I will round off with- ‘No matter what happens, the important thing is to continue with your faith. If you do so you will definitely become happy, or atleast be satisfied with your decisions. Even if things don’t get solved the way you’d initially hoped or imagined, when you’ll look back after the moment has passed, you will understand on a more profound level how it was meant to be, in your best interest and subtlety in the language of universe’.
Embrace your power to heal, fight the odds and live life !!
Reema Sharma | Educator | Samsara School
Edited by: Namrata Gupta